Riya

when she comes running to me, it is a great feeling..only rarely it happens...specially when I have pen in my shirt pocket..and she just want to take that..but then also..;)...am talking about my sister daxa's daughter...riya...our social norms may identify her as daughter of naresh...but i know how big sacrifices daxa has already given...and she is giving currently...may be it is the case with every mother, but that does not mean, it can be taken for granted...ok now, just to make naresh happy, let me put here that now a days, even he is putting great effort...

now as i am saying this to make him happy, it is the normal thing in human nature...i am not sure for all people but in most of the cases I have seen it...including in myself...like if shweta will say to riya that "you don't like uncle (about me), you like aunty only na...."....i will not like it...i mean i know she is just 6 months old....but still...in fact when I am looking back, I was never concerned about my impression to anyone else that much...;)

if baby is giving more attention to me compare to other......it is kind of proud feeling....i will show off my modesty...but deep inside, I will feel that "yes..see...she is coming to me...and not to anyone else"...have seen this thing between naresh and yogesh....they both think that riya is more close to him...

many times i think that it is just our belief that we make child play..actually child makes us play....

i am not good with ending the post...so am stopping here abruptly...

p.s. naresh, fyia if nurturing baby is mother's primary responsibility then sorting photos as per occasion and upload them, make cd is father's job...specially when her father is computer engineer.