Riya

when she comes running to me, it is a great feeling..only rarely it happens...specially when I have pen in my shirt pocket..and she just want to take that..but then also..;)...am talking about my sister daxa's daughter...riya...our social norms may identify her as daughter of naresh...but i know how big sacrifices daxa has already given...and she is giving currently...may be it is the case with every mother, but that does not mean, it can be taken for granted...ok now, just to make naresh happy, let me put here that now a days, even he is putting great effort...

now as i am saying this to make him happy, it is the normal thing in human nature...i am not sure for all people but in most of the cases I have seen it...including in myself...like if shweta will say to riya that "you don't like uncle (about me), you like aunty only na...."....i will not like it...i mean i know she is just 6 months old....but still...in fact when I am looking back, I was never concerned about my impression to anyone else that much...;)

if baby is giving more attention to me compare to other......it is kind of proud feeling....i will show off my modesty...but deep inside, I will feel that "yes..see...she is coming to me...and not to anyone else"...have seen this thing between naresh and yogesh....they both think that riya is more close to him...

many times i think that it is just our belief that we make child play..actually child makes us play....

i am not good with ending the post...so am stopping here abruptly...

p.s. naresh, fyia if nurturing baby is mother's primary responsibility then sorting photos as per occasion and upload them, make cd is father's job...specially when her father is computer engineer.

Flexibility, openness etc..

We always talk about these words, but recently I went through one of the better example of it.
Recently my client and his wife came from Belgium to visit India.
They did not take package tour. Instead they are going with their rucksacks. Their reason was simple: if we take packaged tour, we will go everywhere by bus. We will get continental food in the morning, they will show best places. But we will not be in touch with people.

And they were opened to new things. When we asked, what you like in your food. They replied (promptly),”Indian food”. :)

Infect Julie ate “Vada-Pau” and faster then Shweta ate. :))

Whatever options we gave to them, either in food or in tour plan or in any matter, they readily accept it. They were simply open to things.
And when I asked, they said if we want to tour by ourselves, we should be open enough.
I think they are correct, but point is they were enjoying things.
If I say about me, sometimes, my life becomes complex when I go for any tour.
I become quite reluctant when accepting new things, at first go.
I hope I will take some lesson. :)

state changed

in orkut, last week i got a chance to change my "relationship status". :)
As we have just started to explore each other, right now i can not write thesis about her. ;)
but here who is in hurry..:))
right now i can say, she is understanding, modern but with that giving values to the traditional things, people.
one best thing is that she is also a workaholic..:)
when she is working, she can forget to take lunch/dinner.
and one good thing is she completes work to perfection, i wish i will be able to learn this thing from her.
she has some problems like keeping every thing at proper place in room or shopping or dancing...but i will take care to rectify those problems..so no issue..

so what else?
take care

POST sequence

first thought came to mind when i see this blog concept is: what is the usage of it.. why can't i write diary instead of it,where i will be as honest as i can be...that's for sure that here i will not open my all the cards...will speak only good things about myself...and if i will speak bad things then it will be just to show my modesty..
but as so many people are using it..there must be good about this tool....may be people want to share their thoughts..they want that other listen them...even i want that....if i say, nobody listens me then it will be insult of my friends...but i surely miss long discussion with raksha and naresh.

why i want to write here right now? even i am not sure...(actually i don't know, but corporate world has taught me not to say "i don't know")....i am not at all sad but that is also true that uncertainty of life, does not allow me to enjoy the life at max.
some may comment that rather then thinking on life, i should start to enjoy it..but problem is that there is no way that i can stop my brain to think..
I know in every body's life, uncertainty is there. even in my life it has not come first time..but still....
some may get some disappointing voice out of this, but no doubt life is beautiful...
there is nothing to complain...I am getting more then what i deserve...it may be that i am taking pain for tomorrow, for which i know nothing.
it is good to think about worst possibilities and prepare for it.
but it should be quite logical analysis...but sometimes i put heart with it..

some may feel that i am writing straight away, without any intro or anything..but that is how i generally write..
if i say, i am writing for myself and don't care that other reads it or not, then it will be wrong, otherwise i should write in word document(that's an irony on software engineer, for writing "window + r,notepad, enter" is more handy then using pen paper!!!).
if i am writing here, that means i want ke sooner or later someone reads it.

i am a software engineer and want to establish my own firm.
recently my friend told me we should not tell everything about dream. (why she believes like that, even she was not sure but that was her gut feeling, and i should respect one's gut feeling(specially when i don't have any.))
so i will not write in detail right now...:P

second big thing is going to occur in my life is about me getting engaged, with whom, when, i have no answer, but the way parents are active, it is very likely that i will loose my freedom very soon..phew!! ;) :P (i know i am taking risk by writing like this..because someday in future my better half can view it..and after that what can happen that everyone can imagine..but then who cares!!! B-) )

it is not that i can not write anything more good about myself, but have said so many good things to people around me, now i should try to show modesty...i know it is tough task for me(to keep my mouth shut for not to praise myself), but will try to do...

p.s. post sequence is the terminology of computers, at the time of computer starting, there are certain steps those are followed, it is called POST sequence, and it is done in more managed way then what i wrote here as my startup topic. :)